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inspiring and refreshing read

Posted by HuiHui on 7:52 AM
Garbage collector with heart of gold

Li Yukun has long passed her retirement age of 50 in China.
But the 64-year-old sanitary worker and garbage collector begged to keep her job because she has more than 10 students to support.
Since 1998, Li helped 15 students from poor families.
She also donated 100,000 yuan (RM46,439) to victims of the 2008 Wenchuan earthquake and to other charitable causes.
Kang Yujing is among students helped by Li. She had been receiving 1,000 yuan (RM464) from the kind-hearted grandmother yearly over the past four years.
After finding out the identity of her "angel", the Year Four undergraduate of Qufu Normal University decided to visit her.
When she saw Li sweeping the Wendeng street, Kang ran towards her and held her tightly.
She burst into tears, as she had never imagined that the money given to her was from such hard work.
"I had always thought that the philanthropist was a rich man called 'Uncle Li'."
Li, whose colleagues call "Iron Feet Li", has always spent all her money helping the poor and the underprivileged.
She leads a very simple life and lives in a crude home with an old donated TV set as the only appliance.
Wendeng's construction bureau gave her 50,000 yuan (RM23,220) for living expenses, but she has donated all of the money.
Li had also decided to donate her organs after death.

Source: Xinhua
Published Dec 27 2010


The Generous Vegetable Seller

After the morning hustle and bustle, the atmosphere at Tai-tung county’s Central Market quietens as every stall shuts for the day and their owners return to the comfort of their homes. A lone lamp shines on a vegetable stall. With head bowed, Chen Shu-Chu silently sorts out the vegetable leaves as she waits for the occasional afternoon customer. Decades of hard work have caused the fingers on the right hand to curl and joints to swell; her feet have deformed slightly.

Chen leads her life with a daily routine – waking up at three in the morning, she makes her way to the vegetable wholesaler and sets up her stall, which she tends till seven or eight in the evening. Being the first to arrive and last to leave, the other stall owners have fondly given her the title of ‘market manager’.

In the dark and damp market, Chen, nearing her sixties, holds the stall her father left her dearly. Yuan-Jin Vegetables is her everything. With her vegetables selling at “a bundle for 30 dollars, three bundles for 50”, Chen earns only marginal profits. Yet, her frugality has allowed her to donate about NT$10 million ($321,550) towards various charitable causes, including helping schools, orphanages and poor children.

The selfless generosity of a woman with such humble income has placed her under the international spotlight. In March, Forbes magazine named her one of 48 outstanding philanthropists from the Asia-Pacific region. A month later, TIME magazine selected the year’s top 100 influential people and Chen emerged under the ‘Heroes of Philanthrophy’ category. Fellow Taiwanese and Oscar-winning director Lee Ang wrote her entry personally. “Money is only worthy if given to those in need,” he quoted Chen. He also wrote, “Amazing, but of all she has given away, her greatest gift is leading by example.”

Despite the honour of receiving the TIME award in New York, gaining global recognition, and a personal meeting with President Ma Ying-jeou, all Chen really cares about is her vegetable stall. If not for President Ma and the foreign minister personally convincing her to go, she would not have agreed to visit New York as she felt “this is not a competition and I did not win anything”. Amid the frenzy of applying for a passport and preparing for the visit, Chen’s main concern was that her regular customers would not get their vegetables.

Chen has become a celebrity in Taitung county. Local authorities decorated her stall with congratulatory posters and banners hailing her as the ‘Pride of Taitung’ and the ‘Model of Philanthropy’. There are fans who turn up at the stall with a vegetable basket and a camera, hoping for a picture with Chen. Despite all the attention, Chen remains humble. “I have done nothing extraordinary and everyone who wants to can do it. There are many other charitable people; we just don’t know about them.” Chen, who is unmarried, adds, “I do not place great importance on money. When I donate to help others, I feel at peace and happy, and I can sleep well at night.” She also feels for the poor having experienced hardship in her younger days.

Born in 1950, Chen lost her mother after completing her primary school education. Her mother was admitted to hospital due to difficulties in labour and the family had to pay an insurance of NT$5000 ($160) before medical attention could be granted. Chen saw her father asking their neighbours for money but it was too late to save her mother. The eldest daughter in the family, Chen had to grow up overnight. She gave up her studies and dedicated her life to helping at the vegetable stall.

When she was 18, her younger brother fell sick and the illness dragged on for over a year, gradually depleting the family’s savings. Doctors suggested the family send her brother to Taiwan National University Hospital, but how could they afford the fees? Huang Shun-zhong, a teacher at Ren-ai Primary School, started a donation drive. Unfortunately, her brother could not be saved.

After experiencing the kindness bestowed upon her family, Chen made up her mind to help the poor once she was able. When her father passed away 17 years ago, Chen, a devoted Buddhist, generously donated NT$1 million ($32,140) to Fo Guang Shan Monastery. In 2000, she donated NT$1 million to her alma mater, Ren-ai Primary School, to set up an “Emergency Relief Fund” to help poor children obtain financial help.

Assisting in the setting up and maintenance of the fund is Li Guorong, who teaches Chen’s nephew. In 2001, Li had a plan to build a library for the school and estimated the cost to be between NT$4 million and NT$5 million. When he approached Chen, in the hope that she might contribute NT$50,000, Li was shocked when Chen said she would fund the entire project. While the school was sceptical, Chen was determined. In May 2005, the two-storey library was completed and named “Chen Shu-Chu Library” in honour of the ‘Vegetable Market heroine’ alumnus. She had donated NT$4.5 million.

Chen’s ability to donate such large sums of money has led many to ask, How can a mere vegetable seller earn so much?

“Spend only what you need, and you’ll be able to save up a lot of money!” says Chen. Since 1996, she has been donating NT$36,000 ($1150) to help three children in the Kids-alive International organisation. To achieve this, Chen explains that she empties her loose change into three little cardboard boxes at home every night. “This is a simple act that can be done by anyone, isn’t it?” says Chen.

Chen leads a very simple life without any luxuries. Neither does she have any desire for material gains nor any form of enjoyment. Work, she says, is her enjoyment. “I love my work. If I didn’t, would I be able to work 16 hours a day?” All she needs is food and a place to sleep. Everything else is a luxury.

Has business improved after winning the award? “Business is as usual,” Chen says. “I still need to sell my vegetables, not much has changed.” Advertisers have approached her to film commercials, financial managers have offered to manage her finances and other well-wishers have offered to donate money. Chen rejects these advances politely. “It is easy to return borrowed money, but difficult to return a favour,” she says.

“My philosophy in life is simple: If doing something makes you worried, then it must be a wrong thing. If it makes you happy, then you must have done the right thing. What others say is not important,” says Chen. She is content with what she has and feels that as long as she “lives a life she wishes for and does the things she wants, that is good enough”.


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Guilin 10.3.2010 - 13.3.2010 (Part III)

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Guilin 10.3.2010 - 13.3.2010 (Part II)

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Impressions of Liu Sanjie which was directed by Zhang Yimou.


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Guilin 10.3.2010 - 13.3.2010 (Part I)

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latest read

Posted by HuiHui on 1:07 PM


Wish list:
(a) something by James Dobson.
(b) something by Petter Hessler.


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Purple is in

Posted by HuiHui on 3:40 PM

Seeing all things in purple in church,
Me: Is this the season of advent again?
MH: Yes. **Sigh**

I didn’t probe him further on why he sighed. I guess it is because advent indirectly signifies it is the end of the year again. What exactly the end of the year means to each of us? For me, it means:

1. tie up all the loose ends
2. reflection on the year it has been
3. revisit last year resolutions and targets
4. soul searching for the next course

Hope to achieve all these in this month. Wish me luck!


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Not so little anymore

Posted by HuiHui on 3:42 PM
Just re-installed the ticker at Lucas' blog. So, he's 2 years, 2 months and 4 weeks old today. Recently, we realized that the little guy is not so "little" anymore. Just yesterday, he took out the sunkist orange & grapefruit mixed fruit juice from the fridge, unscrewed the cap, poured onto his cup, screwed back the cap, put back to the fridge and closed the fridge; all by himself. He's a big guy now. :)

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How nice if he's like that all the time...

Posted by HuiHui on 9:54 PM
We had an amazing time in Sibu, all thanks to Lucas, for staging his very best behavior for 5 consecutive days! Any parents will know how much a nightmare it is to travel with young children, with their unpredicatable mood; which in fact most of the time trending towards being cranky due to over stimulation. I dread any trip with that little guy. It was usually very stressful. Hence, MH and I were really thankful to him for granting us an enjoyable trip.


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Enjoying life

Posted by HuiHui on 8:49 AM
I was really looking forward to 31st Oct. I thought by then life won't be as crazy as it was. Our apartment major renovation will be done. Our heavy traveling will be over. Our sick spell will be over. Our crazy workload will be toned down.

2 weeks into November, relaxing is nowhere in sight. I'd respiratory tract infection which later magnified into conjunctivitis. We drove back KL to visit our family. Lucas had herpangina. And now, we're packing for a trip back to Sibu for my sister's wedding.

Life, indeed is just one thing after another. I'm learning to enjoy it.

This is my new shoes cabinet. Get what I mean? ;>


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Less Stress, More Grace

Posted by HuiHui on 8:44 AM
Saw this in my mailbox this morning:

When you feel overwhelmed...


Demands knock on my door.
Burdens beckon me to answer.
The to-do list stretches for miles.

I whisper, "I feel overwhelmed."
And in the stillness it seems I hear...

"Child, open your heart to Me
instead of the demands of the day.
Lay those burdens at My feet, not on your shoulders.
Let go of your list and dare to embrace My grace.
I do not require you to be overwhelmed.
I enable you to overcome.
And with Me, you always will."

I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33

--by Holley Gerth


When you want life to the full...

For years I lived full.
Full schedule.
Full plate.
Full speed ahead.

I found myself weary, wondering,
"Is this really how it's supposed to be?"

And then it seemed God asked me to learn to live differently.
To focus on love.
To make time to listen to His voice.
To embrace what He's called me to do and let all else drop away.

"Isn't that what I've already been doing?" I asked."Don't you want me to be busy, to push myself to the limit?"It seemed the heart of heaven smiled and these grace-words drifted into my day. "Daughter, I did not come to give you a full life. I came to give you life to the full."

"I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." John 10:10

--by Holley Gerth

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Simply love this article

Posted by HuiHui on 1:11 PM
The director discovered from the CV, that the youth's academic result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never has a year he did not score.*

**董事長問,你在學校裏拿到獎學金嗎?該青年回答,沒有。


*The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarship in school?" and the youth answered "none".*


**董事長問,是你的父親** **為您付學費嗎?該青年回答,我父親在我一歲時就去世了,是我的母親給我付的學費。*


*The director asked, " Is it your father pay for your school fees?" the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it is my mother who paid for my school fees.*


**董事長問,那你的母親是在那家公司高就?該** **青年回答,我的母親是給人洗衣服的。** ** **董事長要求該青年把手伸給他,該青年把一雙潔白的手伸給董事長。*


*The director asked, " Where did your mother worked?" the youth answered, my mother worked as cloth cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that is smooth and perfect to thedirector.*


**董事長問,你幫你母** **親洗過衣服嗎?該青年回答,從來沒有,我媽總是要我多讀書,再說,母親洗衣服比我快得多。** *


*The director asked, " Did you ever help your mother washed the cloth before?" The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, my mother can wash cloths faster than me.*


*董事長說,我有個要求,你今天回家,給你母** **親洗一次雙手,明天上午你再來見我。** *


*The director said, I had a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mother's hand, and then see me tomorrow morning.*


*該青年覺得自己成功的可能很大,回到家後,高高興興地要給母親洗手,母親受寵若驚地把手伸給孩子。*


*The youth felt that its chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hand, his mother feel strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hand to the kid.*


**該** **青年給母親洗著手,漸漸地,眼淚掉下來了,因為他第一次發現,他母親的雙手都是老繭,有個傷口在碰到水時還疼得發抖。**


*The youth cleaned his mother's hand slowly, his tear dropdown as he did that. It is first time he found his mother's hand is so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incites pains so strong that shiver her mother's body when cleaned with water.*


*青年第一次體會到,母親就是** **每天用這雙有傷口的手洗衣服為他付學費,母親的這雙手就是他今天畢業的代價。**


*This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the school fees, the bruises in the mother's hand is the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future.*


*該青年給母親洗完手後,一聲不響地把母親剩下要洗的衣服都洗了。**


*After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother.*

*當天晚上,母親和孩子聊了很久很久。*

*That night, mother and sons talked for a very long time.*

**第二天早上,該青年去見董事長。*

*Next morning, the youth went to the director's office*

**董事長望著該青年紅腫的眼睛,問到,可以告訴我你昨天回家做了些什麼嗎?**


*The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye, asked: " Can you tell you what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"*

*該青年回答說,我給母親洗完手之後,** **我幫母親把剩下的衣服都洗了。** *


*The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'*


*董事長說,請你告訴我你的感受。*


*The director asked, " please tell me your feeling."*


**該青年說,第一,我懂得了感恩,沒有我****母親,我不可能有今天。第二,我懂得了要去*


*和母親一起勞動,才會知道母親的辛苦。第三,我懂得了家庭親情的可貴*


*The youth said, Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done. Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship.*


**董事長說,我就是要錄取一個會** **感恩,會體會別人辛苦,不是把金錢當作人生第一目標的人來當經理。你被錄取了。**


*The director said, " This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his onlygoal in life to be my manager. You are hired.*


*這位青年後來果真工作努力,深得職工擁護,員工也都努力工作,整個公司業績大幅成長。*


*Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company's result improved tremendously.*


**假如一位孩子從小嬌生慣養,習** **慣了被人圍著寵著,什麼都是**“**我**”**


第一,父母的辛苦都不知道,上班後,以為同事都應該聽他的,當了經理後,不知道員工的辛苦,還要怨天尤人。這樣的人,會有好的學校成績,會有得意風光的一時,但社會上的這類人,都不能成大事,都不會感覺到幸福,都要跌跟鬥,那父母是愛孩子呢還是害孩子呢?


*A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed "entitlement mentality" and always put himself first. He is ignorance of his parent's effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others.For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for awhile, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid?*


*你可以讓你的孩子住** **

大房子,吃大餐,學鋼琴,看大屏電視,但你在割草時,也要讓你的孩子在大太陽下拔拔野草,你在吃飯後,也要讓你的孩子洗洗碗,不是你沒有錢雇人,而是你真心愛孩子。你要讓孩子知道,即使父母掙不少錢,但早早的白髮,和那位洗衣服的母親沒有本質的差別。但更重要的是,要讓你的孩子學會感恩。


*You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get thing done.*

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The nerds and the fun

Posted by HuiHui on 4:18 PM








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